Deb Price to Speaker Pelosi: Protect gay kids now

by Matt | January 15th, 2007 |

Columnist Deb Price is calling out the Speaker:

The photograph of new House Speaker Nancy Pelosi was political gold: Surrounded by a sea of lawmakers’ shiny-faced girls and boys, a few of them her own grandkids, the first woman to lead “the people’s House” waved the gavel, signaling a new era, particularly for America’s youngest citizens.

Odds are that at least one of the 19 children will start becoming aware of being gay by age 10.

If Pelosi’s picture-perfect snapshot is to mean something beyond being a politically useful prop, she should direct the new Congress to take its first serious look at what it’s like to grow up gay in America.

Why should Pelosi put “Protect our gay kids” atop the House’s to-do list? Heart-breaking research provides plenty of reasons:

Compared with classmates, gay kids are more likely to use alcohol and drugs, engage in risky sex, have more sex partners, skip school for fear of being attacked, think of suicide or even attempt suicide, according to a 2001 article in the American Journal of Public Health. Gay kids whose schools provided gay-sensitive instruction about HIV reported fewer problems.

Nearly half of gay kids told the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network in 2005 they attend schools that teach a federally funded “abstinence-only” until heterosexual marriage courses.

That sort of sex ed makes gay kids feel invisible — or worse. Gay students at such schools reported higher levels of skipping school because they don’t feel safe, being bullied and feeling unable to talk with teachers, counselors or other adults paid to help them through rocky growing-up years. And these kids were less likely to know any openly gay school official.

Seventy-five percent of gay youth report hearing anti-gay name-calling like “faggot” or “dyke” often at school. And more than one-third (38 percent) said they’d experienced anti-gay physical harassment at school, the network’s National School Climate survey found.

Young males, ages 15 to 22, who have sex with other men are at high risk for HIV — that’s particularly true among African-Americans and Hispanics — but 55 percent keep their orientation secret, according to the Centers for Disease Control. Those secretive boys and young men, the CDC says, are less likely than open gays or bisexuals to get tested for HIV, so they are less likely to know if they are infected. They’re also likely to have female sex partners, whom they put at risk for HIV.

The most vulnerable gay kids — throwaways, runaways and lockaways — report appalling levels of anti-gay abuse in foster care, homeless shelters and juvenile detention centers, the Child Welfare League of America finds.

Pelosi ought to use her forceful “mother of five” voice to speak out against these outrages and insist that our nation live up to its obligation to gay kids. Now, that would be a pretty picture.

There is no debate that America has a huge social epidemic facing our young people today. The problems that many gay teens face, while unique and wrapped up in a complex slew of issues surrounding sexuality and society, are also issues being faced by their straight counterparts.

It is hard to argue with the facts, although some people would. As for now, however, LGBT youth are going through life ignored by the government. While many believe that the government exists solely to provide stability and order to a nation, I also believe that the responsibility of helping to protect and care for the weak and vulnerable also falls to the government and, really, society at large as well.

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MattAbout the Author: Matt
Matt, 22, is an LGBT journalist, activist and youth advocate currently living and working in Charlotte, N.C., where he serves as the Editor of Q-Notes, the Carolinas' LGBT news source. A native of Winston-Salem, N.C., Matt attended the University of North Carolina at Greensboro and is still continuing to pursue his bachelors degree. He is the Owner & Editor of InterstateQ.com and has been active in LGBT advocacy work since the age of 14.

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