Archive for the ‘Winston-Salem’ Category


NC Pastor: Stop condeming, start healing

Thursday, September 18th, 2008

The Winston-Salem Journal, my lovely hometown newspaper, published a great column by John Railey. Interviewing an African-American minister, Railey's column delves into just some of the multitude of issues that make stopping HIV/AIDS difficult in black communities and in the black church:

My friends speak out and Pastor Baity rears his ugly, hateful head

Tuesday, June 17th, 2008

WFMY News 2 (Greensboro) did a wonderful story (video here) on my two good friends and mentors Gary Trowbridge and Frank Benedetti, a couple whose been together for decades. They are looking forward to a legal wedding in California. The state started legal marriages for same-sex couples yesterday at 5 ...

N.C. pastor candidate for Southern Baptist Convention prez

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

WINSTON-SALEM, N.C. -- A pastor at a Southern Baptist Church in Lewisville, N.C., a suburb of Winston-Salem, is one of six candidates for the presidency of the Southern Baptist Convention. Les Puryear, who worked as a telecom executive for 25 years, has been a pastor since 1996; this is his third ...

Secretary Jennings?

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

The Advocate compiled a list of "potential" Obama/Clinton Presidential appointments. Hometown boy Kevin Jennings, native of Winston-Salem, N.C. and GLSEN founder, made the list for possible Obama appointments. Do I sense a "Secretary of Education Kevin Jennings" in the air? Oooo. Awesome. Past posts.

Who knew?

Wednesday, January 16th, 2008

From Box Turtle Bulletin (emphasis added): And most importantly, ONE quickly became a voice for thousands of silent gays and lesbians across the U.S., many of whom wrote letters of deep gratitude to ONE’s editors. But in a sign of those times, all letters to the editor were published anonymously — ...

An awkward ‘homecoming’ - Part Two - A Grapevine member’s response and my responses to him

Thursday, December 20th, 2007

The choir director of my childhood church, Grapevine Baptist Church, has responded to my previous post, "An awkward 'homecoming,'" in which I describe portions of my childhood and my recent "homecoming" and confrontation at the church where I first learned the harsh lessons of hate, bigotry and exclusion in the ...

Degrees of Separation

Tuesday, December 11th, 2007

I'm sure we have all heard of the "theory" that says all people are connected to each other within six degrees of separation. From Wikipedia: Six degrees of separation refers to the idea that, if a person is one "step" away from each person he or she knows and two "steps" away ...

An awkward ‘homecoming’

Sunday, December 2nd, 2007

Updates at the bottom of post Today, after seven years of attempting to build the courage and strength, I finally went back to my childhood Baptist church - the place where the stench of hatred, bigotry and oppression was, and still is, thick in the air. Grapevine Baptist Church in Lewisville, ...

Focus in the Family zeros in on N.C.

Tuesday, October 9th, 2007

Focus on the Family's "Love and Respect Marriage Conference" is coming to my hometown of Winston-Salem, N.C. this weekend, October 12-13. This particular conference isn't necessarily one that deals with me or one that is totally, outrageously anti-gay, but the organization and church which are sponsoring it are those things (not ...

Catching up…

Sunday, September 9th, 2007

It has been a while since I've heard of any news from PFLAG Winston-Salem or since I've posted on their exciting happenings. The folks at PFLAG W-S hold a very special place in my heart; many of them were the community members and friends who were first there for me when ...